Showing posts with label Carrie Fisher. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Carrie Fisher. Show all posts

Thursday, May 4, 2017

5 Important Lessons from Princess Leia

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The entire Star Wars community, including cast, crew, creators, and fans, is still dealing with the loss of Carrie Fisher, making May the 4th a bittersweet celebration this year. For fangirls around the world, this blow was particularly intense on a far more personal level than most celebrity deaths, largely because of the impact Princess Leia had on many of us.

During a time when most of our ‘princess’ icons were damsels in distress, Leia was a woman capable of holding her own, commanding respect, and remaining strong and bold even in the face of certain death.

I was introduced to Star Wars by my father at the age of six, and Princess Leia immediately captivated me. As far as I can recall, princesses had never interested me because I didn’t want to hear about someone who needed to be saved. There were no female characters I adored, none whose spirit and personality were something I wanted to aspire to. But then, there was Leia. In a story of heroes and warriors, she stood out as being capable, determined, and fearless.

Leia was beautiful and bold. She didn’t wait for people to give her the opportunity to lead or present herself as worthy of being heard as a woman; she simply stood up and did what she needed to.

For many of us, Princess Leia was the first feminist icon in our limited world views. She also set the tone for strong female leads in the franchise long before the Star Wars EU was even birthed into existence.

As a lifelong devotee of all things Star Wars, the Original Trilogy presented me with only a fraction of who Leia was. Through the Extended Universe, we saw a young woman flourish and grow into a force to be reckoned with. She intricately wove together many aspects of womanhood into one beautiful canvas. Being a warm, loving, and tender mother and wife was easily reconciled with her determination and boldness as a leader. Although there were certainly times when apprehension led her to slower reactions, generally speaking, she knew when was the time for being political and when springing to action was a better course of action.

The things I learned from Princess Leia changed the way I looked at female leads forever. They led me to pursue books with strong female leads who defied gender stereotypes and found success through hard work and determination. Leia filtered into everything from determining the type of woman I wanted to be to the types of female characters I cultivate for my novels.

These are just some of the lessons Leia taught me:


1.  Never let someone intimidate you into compromising what you stand for. 



Leia believed with her entire being that life under the control of the Sith and the Empire would be a far worse sentence than not living at all. Her life was not worth betraying her people for. She believed so strongly that even torture devices designed to force the truth out of people couldn’t break through her bravery. She stood face to face with one of the most powerful villains in the universe and refused to back down or give in, knowing standing her ground could very well mean her own death. 



2. While not opposed to help, a woman doesn’t need saving. 



Sure, if Han and Luke hadn’t shown up she probably would have been executed, but she didn’t need them to cut through the stormtroopers and do all the hard work. When they were backed into a corner and unable to think on their feet, Leia took control and made a move to get them out of there. She had no problems fighting back and had no patience for people trying to play the hero if they weren’t prepared to follow through. When the rebels went to battle, she was prepared to do what she needed to do and lead her troops. She stayed until the last possible moment, refusing to abandon ship until she knew everyone else was safely away. 


3. Emotions aren’t a setback, own them. 


As women, we are often told our emotions make us incapable of being rational, of being leaders, or of doing things as well as men. Leia proved that concept wrong. Her emotions weren’t shut down or buried, but they didn’t make her less of anything either. She used them to fuel whatever she was doing. Her heartbreak over the destruction of Alderaan didn’t turn her into a heaping mess. With the impending attack on the rebel base by the Death Star, she knew her grief could not overwhelm her, instead using it to help her focus on the task of destroying the weapon. 



Her love for Han Solo wasn’t weakness either. She embraced her feelings and channelled them into passion--passion to fight, passion to take risks, and a passion to stand up for what was right and stand against her oppressors. 



Her emotions were a part of her and they made her stronger.



4. You can be feminine and be powerful



Leia was a force to be reckoned with. She often wore feminine outfits, her hair was always done, and she always had on a splash of makeup. She was beautiful, and with a small frame almost dainty, but none of that got in the way of her being able to lead. As mentioned earlier, she didn’t wait for permission or acknowledgement that it was okay to command respect and take charge--Leia simply stood up and did it. She was well-educated and knowledgeable, but she also knew how to cultivate a strong team by supporting the talents and expertise of those who surrounded her. Her gentleness and loving nature encouraged the support of those around her because they knew she was genuinely working for their freedom. Tenderness combined with a fighting spirit helped lead her to success.



5. It’s okay to be exactly who you are.



Throughout history, women have been told how we should look, act, dress, and speak. We’re told the types of jobs we should be doing, what our life goals should be, and what we should be most proud of. Leia wasn’t someone who changed her behaviour, looks, or personality to suit others. She was happy to show her emotions when she wanted. She was sarcastic and funny, not afraid to show annoyance, and was exactly the person she wanted to be. She pursued a role in the rebellion, and later on continued in leadership, not because it was expected of her as a Princess, but because it was what she truly believed in. 

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The woman behind the character most certainly played a large role in making Leia who she was. She contributed greatly to changes in the scripts and shaped our favourite Princess into the well-rounded woman so many of us adore. 

Her princess will remain an inspiration to us for the rest of our lives.

May the force be with you, always, Carrie.

“Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What’s important is the action. You don’t have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow.” - Carrie Fisher

Tuesday, January 3, 2017

To Me She's Royalty: A Tribute to Carrie Fisher

On December 27th, Carrie Fisher passed away. Though she was best known for her role as Princess Leia, Carrie Fisher was also an accomplished author and outspoken mental health advocate. Her legacy will live on, and we'd like to share just a small portion of her legacy: how she's impacted us.


Jaime Heller
A week ago, my co-worker looked at me and said, “Brace yourself. Carrie Fisher died.” And I stared at him in mixture of confusion and shock. My brain could only think “What?” But he nodded and said, “They just confirmed it.” And it hit me. She died. I sat there in silent thought. When Leonard Nimoy and Christopher Lee died, an overwhelming sadness hit me. And when Anton Yelchin died, I was just angry. But with Carrie Fisher, I just felt hollow. I could hardly believe it was true. I knew she had been hospitalized a few days before due to what was reported as a massive heart attack, but I thought she would pull through. But she didn’t.

Her death made it feel like the world was missing something, and it was: her. This beautiful, loving woman not only inspired generations of girls and ladies, but she was an advocate for people with mental illness. She was also a writer, which hit home with me when I found out. She wrote several books and was also a script doctor for numerous films. In many of the pictures I saw circling social media in the hours and days after her death, one thing caught me: she always looked like herself. She didn’t seem to hide her faults or problems. She looked like she was having fun with life, whether that was on the set of Star Wars or at movie premieres with her mother and daughter or flicking off the camera while hugging Mark Hamill. I know she wasn’t perfect, and she wasn’t always happy, but she was--and is--still an inspiration. She didn’t let her troubles get the best of her. She kept fighting, just like Princess Leia kept fighting.


Through her own life and her famous Star Wars character, she taught me--and many other ladies--that women can be strong and smart. They can fight for what they believe. They can take action. She built a legacy that changed cinema, storytelling, and lives. And I think that’s one legacy worth remembering.

Carrie Fisher was many things, and I will miss her bright smile in this world. But she has definitely given me hope.


Andrea Wiesner
To be honest, I am at a loss for words. Someone I've looked up to my whole life is gone. I know I didn't know her personally, but I also know how much she still meant. To me and to millions of other little girls over the years. My heart aches for her family and close friends right now. And I guess all I can say to them is... "Thank you. Thank you for sharing her with the world. And our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time."


Bethany Baldwin

I was shocked when I heard the news that Carrie Fisher had passed away. Only a bit before, my brother and I had joked lightheartedly about 2016 with a touch of wariness. Obviously, the year has little to do with death, but the many personal and celebrity deaths I’ve experienced in 2016 can belay that point a bit. But it couldn’t be Carrie Fisher who died. She was still comparatively young, the same age as my father. Her daughter is only a few years older than me. No, it couldn’t be Carrie Fisher. And the next day my grief grew at the news that Debbie Reynolds, the mother of Carrie Fisher passed away. Both of these women were a huge part of my childhood and stars of beloved films that I’ve watched over and over again. I’m not ashamed to say that I cried. I don’t know a lot about either of these women’s personal lives. I do know Carrie Fisher was an advocate for mental health, something more people need to consider, but I didn’t personally know them. Because of this, I had people think my grief was foolish. Why cry over someone you don’t know? But why not? Why not cry over every lost life and for every person who is grief stricken? I’m crying for Billie Lourd and Todd Fisher. And I’m praying for this family. Carrie Fisher was a perfect Princess Leia. She was special. She was both a damsel in distress and a capable warrior. She will always be our princess.


H. Grace
Where to even begin? I hated that we lost so many celebrities this year, however, my grief never went further than feeling sad for a couple of days and moving on. But Carrie? I'm grieving that loss. I sobbed when one of my friends texted me the news that she was gone. And to lose Debbie Reynolds the very next day made it worse. I've always wanted to meet Carrie and Debbie and now I'll never have the chance.

Even though I didn't grow up watching Star Wars, in fact, the first time I watched the movies was when I was nineteen and visiting my grandma--we watched the original trilogy on VHS (which somehow made the experience better), I still knew the basic story and admired Princess Leia. While I was nineteen when I first actually watched the movies, I remember being about ten years old and watching parts of A New Hope with a friend when my parents were out of town one weekend and my babysitter didn't care what I got into. Yeah, I was a real troublemaker. But I was so impressed by the scene where Leia is supposedly getting rescued by Han and Luke and yet totally takes over and doesn't sit around letting them do the shooting and daring escapades. I'm still not sure if I had a crush on Leia or was just blown away by her badassery. (Both. Both. Both is good.)


And then The Force Awakens came out and my princess had become a general. A clearly grieving, hardened general, but underneath still the feisty princess I loved so much as a little kid. Carrie Fisher herself had changed, coming out about her mental illness and her addictions and affairs. I loved her still, for her vulnerability, her refusal to conform to Hollywood's standards, and her continued badass attitude.

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Carrie, dear, thank you. Thank you for being our princess, our general. Thank you for being you, unapologetic, wild, bold YOU. Thank you for giving us Leia. Thank you for making me realize that princesses don't have to be weak or dumb. We can shoot too. We can lead armies and defy the ones that want to crush our spirits. You showed me that women can be strong and yet feminine.

I could go on forever, but I'm crying again. Farewell, General Organa.


Jamie Stewart
When you're a little girl playing Star Wars with your brother or neighborhood kids, you HAVE to be Leia. Like, she's the only girl so that's your choice. Backyard playtime dynamics weren't always so progressive that you could be whoever you wanted to be. So thank god that that one girl character you could play as was fierce. Thank god she was powerful and a leader. Thank god she was "bossy" and smart and funny and compassionate. And thank god we got to see her thirty years later, still all of those things. Still a role model.


As little girls we were princesses and as women we are generals and senators.

Carrie Fisher meant the world to so many fangirls and we must honor her by living our lives not without fear, but with it and doing whatever the hell we wanted to anyway.


"Stay afraid, but do it anyway. What's important is the action. You don't have to wait to be confident. Just do it and eventually the confidence will follow." -Carrie Fisher

Sky Destrian
I've dreaded writing this all week because I still can't really believe she's gone. And even then, what do I even say?

I remember appreciating Leia when I was younger, but I wish I had appreciated her even more. She was sassy, gorgeous, funny, strong, smart... she was everything. She was a well-written, badass, role-model female character in a time where those types of characters were very, very rare. In the way she portrayed Leia, Carrie changed the game for all of us. She paved the way.

I love how these pictures both show two sides of her personality.--(first picture source)

Carrie Fisher was one of the most incredible women the world has had the honor of knowing. She was a role model for generations of women. She taught us that we could be strong and classy. She taught us not to put up with anything, to not take no for an answer. She did this not only in her role as Princess Leia, but in her real life as well. She was a tireless advocate for mental health, and she was unapologetic in her opinions and her femininity. It didn't matter what other people thought. She just didn't care.


Carrie Fisher is now my role model. On-screen and off, she taught me to fight hard for what I believe in, to take a stand for what's right. I will forever be grateful for the impact she had on me as a human being and the impact she had on the world with her influence and activism. She was incredible. She was a shining star. She went too soon. And she will be greatly missed. Thank you for all you did for us, Carrie. Thank you so, so much. You have done everything you needed to do, and now we will carry on your work--I promise.

(P.S. - She drowned in moonlight, strangled by her own bra. ♥)

Please feel free to leave your tribute to Carrie Fisher in the comments.